thanks to marque for the heads up on this article:
its so good. and paul is so awesome. he came into the store the other day and bought some stuff on the stranger account and i thought he was cute, and not at all un-manly. except when he got really apologetic and polite around picking up a book left on the hold shelf for a week. (not a problem, paul. you are the least of our worries. chris frizzelle is much worse...)
anyway, read this shit. its awesome to have one of the 'privileged' (straight white males) talk about gender like this.